
Can showing off in practice accomplish anything? Is this a blatant rhetorical question? The answer to both would have to be an emphatic yes. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not condoning showing off as something to be done often in your soccer practice, but I do feel that it has it’s uses (otherwise I wouldn’t be writing about it).
I remember years ago as a young soccer player the impact that a Milwaukee Wave player (who I’ll leave anonymous) made on me. We respected what he said because he knew how to play and had fun doing so. At one point during the camp he bet one of the players he could hit the crossbar from midfield. Impossible we thought – and this time we were right, he just barely missed it. Double-or-nothing and he hit it square on. We spent the next month before each practice trying to hit the crossbar from as far away as possible. He didn’t tell us to try practice hitting the crossbar on our own, we didn’t spend a practice on hitting the crossbar, nor did he show off and bet anyone else for the remainder of the camp he could do it again, but it made a lasting impact and made us want to practice.
By no means am I as skilled as any professional player. But in a small town in the middle of nowhere, having played college soccer is close enough for most U10 boys. Last week I happened to finish my training with another team a little early and made my way over to a U10 boy’s practice that was about to have an inner squad scrimmage. They were a little short on players; they had about 8 players and 2 or 3 older brothers who were there for fun. After talking with the coach we decided to join in. Now even though the topic today is showing off, most of the time I played simple passes to the players on my team so they could work with the ball. But on a few occasions I did do a little showing off. At one point during the game the opposing keeper hadn’t had a shot on goal for a while. He looked like he was starting to fall asleep in the back, so I lofted a shot from midfield (mind you it was a U10 field). By the time it got to him it had lost some of it’s pace, but is still reached the keeper about two feet over his head. He tried to save and got a hand on it, but because he wasn’t expecting a shot it was too late and the ball ricocheted into the net. At a latter stage in the game I went back into goal. The other team had a very talented young striker, which coupled with my relatively inexperienced backs led to a number of shots on goal. A number of his shots were right to me and were easily saved, a few of them were well placed shot to the sides that I had to make diving saves to stop. All in all he probably had about a dozen shots that I saved. If that wasn’t enough, I obliged the kids with some bicycle kicks after practice was over (needless to say the next day my hips were killing me and I couldn’t figure out well until I got to practice).
Okay great, I have just shown what a jerk I am when playing against ten year olds (and I haven’t even told you all the other little things I did at that practice). But there’s a point to this and I’ll get to it now. Last night I happened to be pulling out of the parking lot when I was flagged down by a coach. We talked a bit about his practice, but all the while a number of kid’s from the aforementioned U10 boys team kept saying my name. The boys informed me that they had practiced all week and could do a bicycle kick while holding the ball. I told them that that was great and asked if they were working on doing them out of the air too (duh! Of coarse they were). That’s not all. During the practice last week I a number of the boys were trying out some of the skills I “showed off” during the scrimmage. And probably the most impressive thing that came from the scrimmage was from the forward I had denied 12 times. Needless to say, that 13th shot of his was a rocket to the corner that I had no chance at stopping. Now that’s showing off to the show off. I think that one shot of his did more to his confidence than letting him score all of his other shots.
In conclusion, I would like to say that showing off has it’s place in practice, whether it’s from a coach, assistant or player. It’s not something that should be resorted to all the time, in fact, it should probably be used sparingly. And showing off doesn’t have to be about dribbling through ten players and nutmegging the goalie. It can be something as simple as doing bunny-hops with the ball between your legs*. But it does have it’s benefits—namely, that most players will try to emulate what you are doing on their own, without you telling them to. What more could you ask from a training session than to have them go home and practice skills they’ve see others do and be excited about coming back and showing every else? Now that’s what soccer should be about.**
*What? So this may be overkill, but I have just one more example of showing off as a teaching tool. I was working last night with a U6 team. We were playing a game of amoeba tag. I was one of the last players with the ball and the amoebas decided to gang up on me. I put the ball between my feet and bunny-hopped around them and down to the end line. Well sure enough, the next round of amoeba tag found eight, U6-ers trying to bunny hop with the ball down the field…and some of them did it exceptionally well.
**I’m feeling a little self-conscience now and am worried that everyone reading this article will feel that I’m a total jerk – not only do I show off with the ten year olds, but the six year olds! I would just like to say that you have probably never seen a slower or more inept freeze monster than me. Most practices involve me getting beat in everyway imaginable by the kids. As a coach I think it’s good for kids to see you lose graciously, whether it’s on purpose against a group of six year olds or unintentional against a talented ten year old with a well placed shot.
I remember years ago as a young soccer player the impact that a Milwaukee Wave player (who I’ll leave anonymous) made on me. We respected what he said because he knew how to play and had fun doing so. At one point during the camp he bet one of the players he could hit the crossbar from midfield. Impossible we thought – and this time we were right, he just barely missed it. Double-or-nothing and he hit it square on. We spent the next month before each practice trying to hit the crossbar from as far away as possible. He didn’t tell us to try practice hitting the crossbar on our own, we didn’t spend a practice on hitting the crossbar, nor did he show off and bet anyone else for the remainder of the camp he could do it again, but it made a lasting impact and made us want to practice.
By no means am I as skilled as any professional player. But in a small town in the middle of nowhere, having played college soccer is close enough for most U10 boys. Last week I happened to finish my training with another team a little early and made my way over to a U10 boy’s practice that was about to have an inner squad scrimmage. They were a little short on players; they had about 8 players and 2 or 3 older brothers who were there for fun. After talking with the coach we decided to join in. Now even though the topic today is showing off, most of the time I played simple passes to the players on my team so they could work with the ball. But on a few occasions I did do a little showing off. At one point during the game the opposing keeper hadn’t had a shot on goal for a while. He looked like he was starting to fall asleep in the back, so I lofted a shot from midfield (mind you it was a U10 field). By the time it got to him it had lost some of it’s pace, but is still reached the keeper about two feet over his head. He tried to save and got a hand on it, but because he wasn’t expecting a shot it was too late and the ball ricocheted into the net. At a latter stage in the game I went back into goal. The other team had a very talented young striker, which coupled with my relatively inexperienced backs led to a number of shots on goal. A number of his shots were right to me and were easily saved, a few of them were well placed shot to the sides that I had to make diving saves to stop. All in all he probably had about a dozen shots that I saved. If that wasn’t enough, I obliged the kids with some bicycle kicks after practice was over (needless to say the next day my hips were killing me and I couldn’t figure out well until I got to practice).
Okay great, I have just shown what a jerk I am when playing against ten year olds (and I haven’t even told you all the other little things I did at that practice). But there’s a point to this and I’ll get to it now. Last night I happened to be pulling out of the parking lot when I was flagged down by a coach. We talked a bit about his practice, but all the while a number of kid’s from the aforementioned U10 boys team kept saying my name. The boys informed me that they had practiced all week and could do a bicycle kick while holding the ball. I told them that that was great and asked if they were working on doing them out of the air too (duh! Of coarse they were). That’s not all. During the practice last week I a number of the boys were trying out some of the skills I “showed off” during the scrimmage. And probably the most impressive thing that came from the scrimmage was from the forward I had denied 12 times. Needless to say, that 13th shot of his was a rocket to the corner that I had no chance at stopping. Now that’s showing off to the show off. I think that one shot of his did more to his confidence than letting him score all of his other shots.
In conclusion, I would like to say that showing off has it’s place in practice, whether it’s from a coach, assistant or player. It’s not something that should be resorted to all the time, in fact, it should probably be used sparingly. And showing off doesn’t have to be about dribbling through ten players and nutmegging the goalie. It can be something as simple as doing bunny-hops with the ball between your legs*. But it does have it’s benefits—namely, that most players will try to emulate what you are doing on their own, without you telling them to. What more could you ask from a training session than to have them go home and practice skills they’ve see others do and be excited about coming back and showing every else? Now that’s what soccer should be about.**
*What? So this may be overkill, but I have just one more example of showing off as a teaching tool. I was working last night with a U6 team. We were playing a game of amoeba tag. I was one of the last players with the ball and the amoebas decided to gang up on me. I put the ball between my feet and bunny-hopped around them and down to the end line. Well sure enough, the next round of amoeba tag found eight, U6-ers trying to bunny hop with the ball down the field…and some of them did it exceptionally well.
**I’m feeling a little self-conscience now and am worried that everyone reading this article will feel that I’m a total jerk – not only do I show off with the ten year olds, but the six year olds! I would just like to say that you have probably never seen a slower or more inept freeze monster than me. Most practices involve me getting beat in everyway imaginable by the kids. As a coach I think it’s good for kids to see you lose graciously, whether it’s on purpose against a group of six year olds or unintentional against a talented ten year old with a well placed shot.
